One thing I’ve been thinking about a lot lately is girls, and how to treat them. I feel like guys try too hard to think about how to treat them, when really, if a guy just treated a girl normally, things would be way better. Why flirt with someone if you know nothing is going to happen?
Why lead someone on like that? Maybe that’s why guys have such a bad rap about these things. I feel like it is things like these that are jeopardizing the way girls look at guys in general.
I feel like if a guy treats a girl with respect and loving kindness, things would be so much better than what the general stereotype is. But why just with girls? Why can’t a man treat another man with respect and dignity. This just plays into the beginning. Just be yourself, and maybe if being this way around girls you should analyze yourself, and do something different. Because it is defiantly not okay.
Anywho, I’m sitting in the van now, and about to leave Somerset. What a great experience I had, so many fantastic kids, who impacted me as much as I hope we impacted them. I love doing this, and it is such a perfect thing to me. What a fantastic plan God has given me so far, and I am so blessed to be involved in these kids’ lives. I love love love it.
One thing I could use prayer for is my sensitivity. I’m a very sensitive person, and I analyze everything so literally, and analyze myself. But the problem is, I brush off the compliments and focus on those non-verbal cues that probably have nothing to do with the bad things I’m thinking about. It’s really wearing me down. I just want to act like Christ is, I feel like analyzing myself is not healthy especially like how I have been.
A lot has been going through my head….sorry guys.
I don’t understand why things always have to be so extreme. Sometimes I just want to chill, but society says all or nothing.
I’m done. Keep me in your prayers please.
Don’t worry. I still love my job.
Finally,
I think genders are stupid classifications.
love.wins.
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1 comment:
Of course guys do these things and should be held responsible. Their reputations SHOULD be considered even when they are trying to prove themselves differently because they have felt "the spark." But girls know these things. So, ultimately it is there responsibility to recognize the truth as so. Often we females tend to ignore these things because we feel we are lacking love and it often gets lonely. Not that we all are weak, but we do not take responsibility for our reactions. And once we are able to admit, "Wow, ~I~ believed that guy and ~I~ probably shouldn't have." Then, it will be a lot easier for us to say, "Oh well. It's not my fault he doesn't see how great I am." Thus, our lives would be a lot easier and we would be able to stay detached from such situations. I really do appreciate your support, though. Both genders need support.
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